About this test
Every long relationship runs partly on habit, and that is not a bad thing: routines are how two lives fit together. The question is whether there is still something more alongside them. These 12 statements look at four things that keep love from becoming only routine: spark, choice, curiosity and appreciation.
This is a reflection tool for entertainment and conversation, not relationship counselling or a diagnosis. Feelings change over time and with circumstances.
Questions people ask
Is habit bad for a relationship?
No. Shared routines bring comfort and stability. This quiz looks at whether habit is the only thing holding things together, or one part of something you still actively choose.
Can a quiz tell me if I'm still in love?
No quiz can. It reflects how your answers describe things right now, which can be a useful starting point for thinking or talking.