About this test
Compatibility is not a number. It is knowing what each of you needs to feel loved, and making room for both. This quiz looks at five needs that shape most relationships: closeness, space, adventure, security and growth. You get the one that leads for you. Take it alone, then compare with your partner to see where your answers met and where they did not.
Questions people ask
Will this give us a compatibility percentage?
No. A percentage cannot tell you whether a relationship works. This quiz shows what each of you needs most, and comparing shows where your answers were the same and where they were different.
What if we need different things?
Most couples do. Different needs are not a mismatch; they are something to talk about. Knowing them early makes it much easier to look after both.
Are my answers saved?
Your answers stay in your browser. If you choose to compare, see the privacy page for exactly what is stored and for how long.